As I am making preparations to go on a family vacation, I thought it would be a good time to talk about the fact that certain behavior is expected. Of course, all of us have nightmare tales that we can tell about traveling next to someone, for example on a plane, and having to endure someone whose personal space seems to include YOUR personal space as well. I particularly love the plane travelers who think it necessary to tell you personal information about themselves or their family members. Precious. Really. Truly.

Though many people have cut back on their traveling this year due to the economic crisis, those who do choose to travel often have the first part of their journey marred by fellow passengers who are intent on only pleasing themselves and who lack decent consideration for those around them. If it becomes too much to bear and it is not a full flight, you may quietly speak to the flight attendant and be seated in a different seat.

So what’s a savvy traveler to do? Aside from picturing embarrassing events happening to the unwitting passenger, there are several things to keep in mind. Here’s a short list for traveling via plane. For those of you choosing alternative modes of travel, like say, trains or buses, I have the answers for that HERE.

1. Be respectful of those around you, since air travel requires close, sometimes uncomfortable seating.

2. Avoid applying too much perfume or eating something with a strong odor before boarding the plane.

3. Make sure your carry-on baggage is an appropriate size to fit in the overhead compartment. If it is questionable, have it checked.

4. Quickly board the plane and find your seat. If you need to move to allow another passenger into the seat on your row, quickly move to the aisle, let the passenger in, and then return to your seat.

5. If someone asks you to switch seats to sit near a family member, particularly if it is a child, be willing to do so. Imagine how you would feel if you were a small child traveling without the comfort of a parent.

6. It is customary to make conversation with your seatmate until the first drinks are served. Then, settle in to listen to music, watch the in-flight movie, or read a book. Do not expect your seatmate to talk with you for the entire flight. (Hopefully they also know this rule!)

7. Do not kick the seat in front of you or grab the headrest when getting up to use the facilities, for          goodness sake, if you are traveling with children instruct them not to do so, either.

8. When leaving the plane, wait for the rows ahead of you to deplane, and then take your turn.

9. Carry your luggage in front of you as you board or exit the plane so you do not hit others.

10. Try to refrain from drinking too much during flight, as it makes you less aware of your surroundings and habits.

Traveling is one of life’s pleasures and it is there for all to enjoy. So, pack up your bags, ladies, and get out there. The world is truly your oyster.

See you soon on the manners side,

Liz

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Also…just a little horn blowing, if you please.